Matt van Onselen, AMFT
Somatic Therapist
Los Feliz and Studio City, California and Online
Complex trauma, depression, anxiety
Life transitions, family dynamics
Creative professionals
Couples: repairing conflict, creating a shared vision
Teens: reducing social anxiety & improving self-esteem
Previous career in communications, from South Africa
My specialties
I specialize in somatic therapies that help clients identify, process and understand bodily sensations and their role in daily life. I believe our bodies hold the key to psychological progression.
Stress and anxiety
Depression
Complex trauma and PTSD
Teens
Couples
Religious trauma
LGBTQ+ & non-traditional relationships
Midlife crises or difficult life transitions
Career changes
Divorce, separation or family restructuring
Codependency
Therapy with me
In modern life, we are encouraged to “out-think” our problems, or to push them away. I take the opposite approach, providing a calm environment in which we can welcome and work through our anxiety, dread, stress, grief and whatever else may be lurking beneath the surface. Sitting with discomfort can be a challenge, so I am here to accompany you and teach you the skills to become resilient and reach your potential.
“We all know the feeling of getting stuck in our heads in an endless loop. Our body opens a new door to real change.”
My background
I am a psychotherapist and executive coach with three Masters degrees in Marriage and Family Therapy, Philosophy and Screenwriting, as well as specialized training in somatic and Jungian approaches.
I have been privileged to live and work in many countries. I was raised in South Africa, then lived in France and England, and eventually settled in Los Angeles in 2015. Previously I worked as a writer, communications strategist, and business owner. Underlying all these experiences is a deep curiosity about people from different cultural backgrounds.
“I believe that science-based and evidence-based perspectives can dovetail with storytelling, creative expression and spirituality. There is never just one way to view or address a problem.”
Training
Master of Marriage and Family Therapy (Touro University)
Master of Fine Arts in Screenwriting (University of California, Los Angeles)
Master of Philosophy (University of the Witwatersrand)
Training as a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner through SEI
Executive Coaching Certificate through the Center for Executive Coaching
Mindfulness instructor training through the Unified Mindfulness CORE training program
Trained in Jungian depth psychology at Coldwater Counseling Center
Registered Associate Psychotherapist Matthew van Onselen, AMFT #161648
Supervised by: Paulina Padilla, LCSW #61768
Treatment approach
I teach clients how to notice, withstand and work through uncomfortable or overwhelming experiences in the body. Our nervous systems are designed to help us escape danger or push through stress, but staying in those modes day after day can leaving us feeling stuck, depleted or depressed. I help clients approach their moment-to-moment sensations with curiosity and self-compassion. Together, we can learn to make friends with our bodies and work with them, rather than against them.
Our bodies often reveal the truth about what is going on for us psychologically. Past traumas can resurface through fight-or-flight responses, unexpressed emotions can present as headaches or nausea, and unresolved inner conflicts can surface through heart palpitations or twinges – to name just a few. My practice prioritizes these important messages as we understand their role in what a client is facing. From there, we can explore what a client needs to embrace, what they need to let go of, and how they can move forward.
I combine somatic therapy with Jungian depth psychology, where we explore unconscious patterns that underlie our choices or keep returning us to familiar, unhealthy situations. This can involve the creative expression of our inner lives through writing, creating art or dream work. All of these aspects of therapy are accentuated by calming the body and navigating the constant push and pull of our emotions.
Services and fees
I offer in-person and online sessions for:
Individuals $200 (50-minute session)
Couples $200 (50-minute session)
Teens $200 (50-minute session)